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Black Friday & Cyber Monday 2016 Sales, Deals, Coupons Codes & Cash Back

November 24, 2016
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Black Friday & Cyber Monday 2016 Sales, Deals, Coupons Codes & Cash Back

Are you ready? Black Friday + Cyber Monday is one of the busiest times of the year and the probably the craziest. However, put all the adrenaline aside and shop these amazing sales right in the comfort of your own home. I have found some AWESOME sales this year and my list just keeps getting better and better. From Beauty to Home, this is the place to check. Below is everything that I have found and received thus far. Some sales are super secret and I can’t share until they go live, so bookmark this post because I am going to be constantly updating it until the very last sale is shared from now until Monday evening. Plus any sale extensions will get listed here as well.

WAYS TO SAVE

Get Cash Back with Ebates when you shop! 4% Walmart, 8% Saks Fifth Avenue, 8% Kohls, 6% Nordstrom, 3% QVC, 8% The Body Shop, 6% Ulta, 6% Bloomingdales, 10% UGG, 6% Macy’s

One of the coolest things, especially with something like Ebates is that you get cash back just for shopping. Yes, you heard that right, you spend money and they give you a percentage of it back. A ton of the deals listed below, you can use EBATES to shop and get cash back. Even better, if you sign up now and make your first purchase, you get an extra $10 as a bonus! It’s win-win-win.

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TOP BEAUTY SALES

  • AHAVA:
    • 40% Off No Minimum, 50% Off Spend $100, 60% Off $160. Use Code: BLACKFRIDAY. Plus, Free Shipping on Orders $50+! Valid 11/24-11/26!
    • Cyber Monday Sale! 50% Off the ENTIRE Site! Plus, Free Shipping on ALL Orders with Code: CYBERMONDAY. Valid 11/27-11/30!
  • AMAZON: Spend $50 on a Amazon Luxury Beauty purchase, get $25 back with the promo code BEAUTYGIFT25. (Ends 12/31/2016)
  • BH COSMETICS:
    • Up to 75% OFF Top-Rated Makeup. Shop Now (11/24 – 11/28)
    • Biggest Cyber Monday Ever– up to 70% OFF. Shop Now! (11/27-11/30)
  • BIRCHBOX: 10% off select
  • BLUEMERCURY:
    • Receive Up to 20 FREE Deluxe Samples for your favorite beauty brands at Bluemercury with $150 purchase. Use Code: TREASURES (Ends 11/27)
  • THE BODY SHOP:
    • Limited Edition Black Friday Tote $35 with $33 purchase + 3 products for $33 + $10 Beauty Bags + FREE SHIPPING (Ends 11/26)
    • CYBER MONDAY Online Exclusive: 50% OFF Sitewide + FREE Shipping with any Purchase!
    • $15 Small Box Gift Sets + $30 Medium Box Gift Sets + FREE Shipping with any Purchase. Valid 11/21 – 11/26
  • CAUDALIE: 50% off select merchandise. Bonus gift with $50 purchase. (Ends 11/28)
  • CLAIRES:
    • Thanksgiving Deal 40% off Entire Site (11/24 Only)
    • Black Friday Deal 50% off Entire Site (11/25 Only)
  • CLINIQUE: 25% off + free shipping with any purchase with code 25OFF, (Ends 11/30)
  • CLEANRESERVE: Free discovery layering kit with every purchase over $90 Free discovery layering kit with every purchase over $90 (11/21-11/26)
  • COLLEEN ROTHSCHILD: ALL SKINCARE  30% off Sitewide CODE: BLKFRI
  • ELF COSMETICS:
    • All season long: enjoy free shipping on all orders! No code needed. Valid 11/20-12/19.
    • 50% off site wide at elf Cosmetics! Use code BLACKFRIDAY on orders $30+. Offer valid 8p EST 11/24 through 2:59a EST 11/25.
    • Get 4 FREE fan faves – including our top-rated Baked Eyeshadow Palette. (a $20 value!) Use code THANKFUL on any $25 purchase. Offer valid 11/26-11/27.
    • 50% off everything with code CYBERMONDAY on orders $30+. Offer valid 11/28 only.
  • FOREO:
    • 25% off on all items site wide – except Holiday Gift Sets Valid: Nov 24th @ 8 am PST – Nov 28th.
    • 25% off on all items site wide – except Holiday Gift Sets + Spend over $99 and Get a Free LUNA Play in Pink. (Valued at $39) (Customer must add product to cart.) Use Code: FOREOBF16 (11/28 – 11/30)
  • IT COSMETICS:
    • Spend $35 and receive a free Travel Size Brow Power Universal Brow Pencil, CODE: DISCOVER35
    • Spend $75 and receive a full size Hello Lashes Mascara. CODE: BELIEVE75
    • Spend $125 and receive a full-size No. 50 Serum
  • JURLIQUE: Up to 50% select products!
  • KIEHLS: Use code JINGLE for $20 off a $65 purchase.
  • L’OCCITANE:
    • Choose Your 6-Piece Set for $18 with $45 Purchase! From 11/23 at 12 AM EST until 11/27 at 4:59 PM EST only! Shop now! Use Code: FRIDAY
    • Buy 3, Get 1 Free! Over 20 Items! From 11/23 at 12 AM EST until 11/27 at 04:59 PM EST only! Shop now!
    • Buy 3, Get 1 Free! Over 20 Items! From 11/27 at 5 PM EST until 11/30 at 11:59 PM EST only! Shop now!
    • Free $10 Gift Card + 3 Shea Hand Creams with $50 Purchase! From 11/27 at 5 PM EST until 11/30 at 11:59 PM EST only! Shop now! Use Code: CYBER
    • Cyber Monday 20-Piece Gift! Only $38 with $50 Purchase! From 11/27 at 5 PM EST until 11/30 at 11:59 PM EST only! Shop now! Use Code: MONDAY
  • MACYS:
    • Anastasia Beverly Hills Lipgloss $8 (Ends 11/26)
    • Urban Decay Alice Thru the Looking Glass Palette $34
    • Urban Decay Revolution Lipgloss $11
    • MAC Holiday Sets: Over 11 Holiday Sets up to $80 Value for $35 – Limited time only.
  • MARC JACOBS BEAUTY: 25% to 34% off Marc Jacobs Black Friday Limited Edition Gift Sets
  • NORDSTROM:
    • Choose from 80+ Beauty Gifts with Purchase (Ends 11/28)
    • Black Friday Mystery Beauty Gift with Purchase (11/25 ONLY)
    • 25-34% off Beauty Tools, Special Beauty Deals from MAC, Beauty Blender, Charlotte Tillbury, and more!
    • Choose from four five-piece gifts with your $75 Clarins purchase
  • OUIDAD:
    • 20% Off a $100+ Purchase at Ouidad.com! Use promo code: CHOICE20
    • Save 15% Off a $75 Purchase at Ouidad.com! Use promo code: CHOICE15
    • 10% Off a $50 Purchase at Ouidad.com! Use promo code: CHOICE10
    • 6pc Mega Gift Offer! White Holiday Travel Bag, 2.5oz Climate Control Gel, 2.5oz Botanical Boost, 2.5oz Moisture Lock and 2.0oz Melt-Down Mask, *plus* wide-tooth comb FREE with $85 purchase!
  • PAULA’S CHOICE: 20% off sitewide + free shipping on all orders.
  • SEPHORA: (11/25)
    • $10 DEALS
      • Tarte Intro To Tarte Deluxe Discovery Set
      • CLEAN Reserve Rollerball Layering Trio Ornament
      • SEPHORA COLLECTION The Delicate Eyeshadow Palette
      • LIVING PROOF Style Lab Kit
      • TOO FACED Better Than Sex Lash On & Melt Off Set
      • SEPHORA COLLECTION Essential Rose Skin Trio
      • TOCCA Simply Chic Set
      • TARTE Pretty Little Lippies Set
      • ALTERNA Volume Trio Kit
      • COVER FX Radiant Skin Duo
      • BARE MINERALS You’re Brilliant All Over Face Color & Brush Duo
      • CLINIQUE Take It All Off Duo
      • CLEAN Rollerball Layering Trio
      • BUXOM License To Chill 3 Piece Eye & Lip Collection
    • $15 DEALS
      • OLE Henriksen Try Us, Love! On-the-glow Essentials
      • CLARISONIC Radiance Renewing Duo
      • FIRST AID BEAUTY FAB Holiday Trio $20
      • DEVACURL Ultra Moisture Sampler Kit $12
      • JACK BLACK Clean Start
      • MURAD Polish, Plump, and Protect $20
      • SEPHORA COLLECTION Perfect & Cleanse: Sponge Trio and Cleaner Set
      • PHILOSOPHY Amazing Grace & Pure Grace Mini Travel Set $20
      • NEST Travel Spray Trio $12
      • PHILOSOPHY Purity Made Simple
      • URBAN DECAY Makeup Lockdown Travel Duo $19
      • ORIGINS Cult Faves $18
      • JOSIE MARAN Infinite Argan Enlightenment Duo $12
      • URBAN DECAY After Dark Travel Pencil Set $19
      • PHILOSOPHY The Microdelivery Detoxifying Oxygen Peel
    • $25 DEALS
      • MAKE UP FOR EVER Artist Palette Volume 2- Artistic
      • MILK MAKEUP Headliner Makeup Set
      • MURAD Bright Beginning Evironmental Shield $20
  • SHU UEMURA ART OF HAIR:
    • Get 15% Off $125 or More, Free Shipping & a Murakami Beauty Bag With Code BFR16 at Checkout. Valid 11/25 – 11/27.
    • Get 15% Off, Plus Free Shipping On All Orders With Code CYBMON16 at Checkout. Valid 11/28 – 11/29
    • Get Free Shipping & Limited Edition Shu Tote Bag With Orders $85 or More With Code STOCKUP at Checkout. Valid 11/30 – 12/4.
  • SKINSTORE: 25% off Sitewide with promo code CYBERWKND
  • STILA: 25% OFF Site-Wide and Free ShippinG! USE CODE: 25BFSALE at checkout.
  • T3: 25% off Sitewide with code T3FRIDAY16
  • ULTA:
    • $10 BareMinerals Make Me Glimmer, Make Them Stare, Make It Glow Kits
    • $14.99 Ulta Beauty Joyful Beauty 72 PC. Collection
    • $74.96 Ultra Chi 1″ Hairstyling Iron OR Ceramic Pro Dryer
    • $24.99 NYX Box of Goodies Advent Calendar
    • $8.99 Sexy Hair Select Top Sellers
    • $9.99 Ulta Beauty Lip Glossary
    • $7.99 Tigi Select Jumbos
    • $10 Urban Decay Fatty Mascara
    • $8.99 Sebastian Shaper Hairspray
    • $10 Eco Tools Best Seller Collection
    • $8 Urban Decay Primer Potion
    • $9.99 Ulta Beauty Professional Hair Sampler Kits
    • $2.99 Ulta Beauty 4 PC. Nail Sets
    • $10 Smashbox Full Exposure Mascara
    • $10 Buxom Bundle Up Baby Kit
    • $8 Pacifica Deluxe Travel Set
    • $10 First Aid Beauty Fab Cleanse & Exfoliate Kit
    • $9.99 Ulta Beauty Zip Me Up & Just Face It Eye
    • $9-10 Butter London Mini Duos
    • $8 The Body Shop Bath It Up Santa & Bath It Snowman
    • $8 Philosophy Purity Made Simple
    • $10 Estee Lauder Modern Muse Deluxe Mini
    • $10 BareMinerals Prime Time
    • $8 Bliss Sparkle & Shine
    • $12 Philosophy Shampoo, Shower Gel, and Bubble Bath 16oz.
    • $12 Tarte Double Duty Beauty Palette Play Eye & Cheek Palette
    • $15 Benefit Beauty Blowout
    • $14.99 Ulta Beauty Skincare Sampler Kit
    • $12 Mario Badescu Holiday Multi-Masker Set
    • $15 Pur Cosmetics Mini Eyeshadow Palette or Mini Highlighter Palette
    • $14.99 Bed Head Curlipops
    • $15 Mally Beauty High Shine Liquid Lipstick
    • $12 It Cosmetics Hello Lashes
    • $12.50 Real Techniques Color Pop Set
    • $15 Dermalogica Double Cleanse Set
    • $12 It Brushes For Ulta
    • $15 Skyn Iceland
    • $12 Murad Polish and Protect Set
    • $12 Jack Black Best of Jack
    • $14.99 Ulta Beauty Women’s & Men’s Fragrance Samplers
    • $15 Art Of Shaving Starter Kit
    • $12 Smashbox Shadow & Mascara Set
    • $19 Tarte Party Perfect Discovery Kit
    • $18 Laura Geller New York Holiday Essentials Collection
    • $18 Lorac Tails & Top Hats Eye Shadow Palette OR Black Tie Attire Eye Shadow Palette
    • $19 Stila Holiday Dreamer Duo
    • $25 Philosophy The Gift of Glowing Skin Set
    • $16 Too Faced Lashes, Love & Lipstick
    • $25 Juicy Couture Viva La Juicy Fragrance Set
    • $19.50 Clinique Happy Treats Set
    • 40% OFF The Body Shop
    • $34 Lancome Mascara Set
    • 2 FOR $12 OP Mini Trios
    • 20% OFF Clarisonic Holiday Kits
    • B1G1 Ulta Beauty Bath Gifts
    • 50% OFF Hot Tools
    • B1G1 OGX
    • $59.95 CHI 1″ Iron
  • WALGREENS:
    • Buy 2 Get 3rd Free Skincare (Ends 11/26)
    • Buy 1 Get 1 50% OFF Maybelline (Ends 11/26)
    • Buy 1 Get 1 50% OFF L’Oreal (Ends 11/26)
    • Buy 2 Get 3.000 Points Real Techniques Cosmetics Brushes (Ends 11/26)
    • 40% OFF Revlon & Almay (Ends 11/26)
    • 50% OFF Wet n Wild Gift Sets (Ends 11/16)

TOP FASHION SALES

  • ABERCROMBIE & FITCH: Entire store 50% off. (Ends 11/25) Free shipping (11/24-11/28)
  • AMERICAN EAGLE: 40% off + Free Shipping (Ends 11/29)
  • ANN TAYLOR: 50% off Sitewide and In Store with code CELEBRATE
  • ASOS: 30% off off Sitewide and In Store with code THANKFUL30
  • BAUBLE BAR: 30% off purchases with code THANKS30
  • CHARLOTTE RUSSE:
    • Entire site $20 & UNDER (11/23-11/25)
    • Free Shipping (11/23-11/28)
    • All denim 50% OFF (11/24-11/25)
    • 40% Off Sitewide (11/27-11/28)
  • COACH: 30% Off select styles with code THANKS2016
  • EXPRESS: 50% off everything In Store and Sitewide + Free Shipping
  • FOREVER 21:
    • Extra 30% Off Black Friday Sale Items With Promo Code: EXTRA30 (11/22-11/27)
    • Extra 30% Off Sale Items + Free Shipping with Promo: EXTRA30 (11/28-11/29)
    • Cyber Monday Deals: 21% Off $21+ and Free Shipping on all orders (11/28-11/29)
  • FRANCESCA’S: 30% off Sitewide
  • MACY’S: 20% off Sitewide with code FEAST
    • Save 30% off Ray-Ban and Revo, select styles. Shop now at macys.com! Valid 11/24-11/28
    • 50% Off Trendy Plus. Shop now at macys.com! Valid 11/25-11/26
  • MICHAEL KORS: Receive 25% off $250 and 30% off $300 with code HOLIDAY. Offer valid 11/21-11/28
  • MODCLOTH: 20% off no minimum, 30% off $100+, 40% off $200 with Promo Code:FRIDAY20, FRIDAY30, FRIDAY40
  • NORDSTROM:
    • Save $50 on Select Bose® Headphones for a Limited Time (Ends 11/29)
    • 25% OFF three selected SOREL styles (Ends 11/29)
    • Black Friday Deals for Women, Men, Kids & Home! (Ends 11/28)
    • 30% OFF Select Tory Burch Styles, only through November 28 at NORDSTROM.
  • NORDSTROM RACK: Take an additional 30% Off Clearance for a savings of over 75% Off
  • OLD NAVY: 50% off (almost everything) ends 11/25 at 11:59 pm
  • SHOPBOP: Spend $200+, get 15% off; Spend $500+, get 20% off; Spend $800+, get 25% off with code GOBIG16
  • TORRID:
    • 40% off plus size fashion for sizes 10-30 (Ends 11/29)

FOR THE HOME DEALS

  • COST PLUS WORLD MARKET:
    • 50% off All Tea (Ends 11/25)
    • 50% off All Tea Kettles & Accessories (Ends 11/25)
    • 40% off Novelty Ceramics (Ends 11/25)
    • 40% off All Pet Accessories (Ends 11/27)
    • 40% off All Home Office Accessories (Ends 11/27)
    • 40% off All Pajamas (Ends 11/27)
    • 60% off All Boxed Cards (Ends 11/27)
    • 40% off All Throws (Ends 11/27)
    • 50% off All Baskets (Ends 11/27)
  • MICHAELS:
    • 30% Off Entire Purchase Including Sale Items Code: THANKS116 (11/24 ONLY)
    • 25% Off Entire Purchase Including Sale Items  Code: THANKS216 (11/25 ONLY)
  • WALMART:

TOP MISCELLANEOUS DEALS

  • EBATES:
    • KOHLS: Black Friday Deals + extra 15% off + $15 Kohl’s Cash for every $50 spent. CODE: SAVING15 + 8% CASH BACK
    • KATE SPADE: Up to 75% off + free shipping at $175. + 6% CASH BACK

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